Bullying!

hey guys.


I thought I would write about bullying as yesterday I watched some YouTube videos and they really got to me. I think your all probably aware of Amanda Todd. for those who aren't, she was a teenage girl who attended school like any other normal 15 year old, but after an incident online with a man, she got bullied to the point where she decided to take her life because she thought that was the only way out of the torture. I don't know about you, but to me, that is just disgusting. To know that people do this to teenagers who are capable of a great and successful life but then, they wouldn't know that would they?


luckily, I'm blessed enough to have never been bullied - so far. Obviously I've had comments said to me, mainly because I'm bigger but I wouldn't call that bullying. They're just horrible People who like to put other people down. It's quite sad really. its just really bad that other innocent people have to go through some of the horrible things bullying does to you. I know it causes depression, and to be a teenager and to need anti depressants or counselling shouldn't even be such a thing! it honestly sickens me. Why do horrible people have the urge to take their anger or envy out on someone else.

If your recieving negative comments or being bullied please tell someone. Even though that is the only thing people get told, do it. It could save your life! don't be worried about what they'll do when they find out you've 'snitched' on them, you haven't snitched, you've done the responsible thing and sort it. Feel free to ask me for advice or if you have any questions just ask me. I like to be the person who helps others, wether it be advise, or just a friend I don't mind. 

I hope you all have had a lovely day! 

This is a picture of me in a dress for my nanna's birthday, I don't normally take full body pictures as I'm bigger and hate my stomach. I'm also worried about the comments I get from those horrible people, but I've learnt to just ignore them. The best revenge is happiness, so use it! I hope it inspires you to not be afraid of getting comments. (If you do, block them, delete them you don't have to put up with it!) 

Love you all, 

Adios Amigo!xo

 

Being confident!

Hey guys.

So today, this is basically going to be a rant because i feel as though not many people - mainly teens - are confident and they should be, in terms of talents etc. (This is not aimed anyone.)

So as I'm sure all of you reading this will probably know someone who is practically good at everything or a lot of things, whether it be sport, art, singing, or just jobs you do in everyday life. And I'm sure you've heard someone say that they think they're 'up themselves' or that they hate them. Well I don't believe that ANYONE should say that they hate someone just because they are good at things that maybe they can't do. It's called jealousy and we all show it in different ways, but even saying that they're up themselves just because they know what they're good at and continue to do it, is still harsh. 

I'm trying to say that they should be proud that they know what their talent(s) is/are and that they show it to the world. People get hate for doing things they enjoy just because other people are jealous. If someone is good at sports let them be, don't put them down for it. There's really no need. Besides it's better to be 'up yourself' than to put yourself down for something you enjoy. 

Sometimes bigger girls are good at dancing but because smaller people are normally known for being good dancers, the bigger girls get hate, for example, 'ew, they should not be dancing' or 'look at her dancing, that isn't nice to see'. Just because it's not considered 'normal' for them. I thinks it's horrible. If they're good at dancing, let them dance. If they enjoy it, let them. There's no need to ruin someone's self esteem. 

Even if someone isn't the best at something say, singing for example. Don't put them down for it. If they enjoy it, then that's all that matters. If you don't like them singing, don't listen. 

* You don't have to be jealous of someone because they enjoy their hobby or are good at something, instead be supportive and encourage them to become even better! * 

If you are told that you shouldn't be doing something you enjoy or are good at, just know that they're only jealous and that itself should tell you to carry on doing, what you do best! 

I'm going to leave that now before I bore you, so adios amigo!xo