So today, this is basically going to be a rant because i feel as though not many people - mainly teens - are confident and they should be, in terms of talents etc. (This is not aimed anyone.)
So as I'm sure all of you reading this will probably know someone who is practically good at everything or a lot of things, whether it be sport, art, singing, or just jobs you do in everyday life. And I'm sure you've heard someone say that they think they're 'up themselves' or that they hate them. Well I don't believe that ANYONE should say that they hate someone just because they are good at things that maybe they can't do. It's called jealousy and we all show it in different ways, but even saying that they're up themselves just because they know what they're good at and continue to do it, is still harsh.
I'm trying to say that they should be proud that they know what their talent(s) is/are and that they show it to the world. People get hate for doing things they enjoy just because other people are jealous. If someone is good at sports let them be, don't put them down for it. There's really no need. Besides it's better to be 'up yourself' than to put yourself down for something you enjoy.
Sometimes bigger girls are good at dancing but because smaller people are normally known for being good dancers, the bigger girls get hate, for example, 'ew, they should not be dancing' or 'look at her dancing, that isn't nice to see'. Just because it's not considered 'normal' for them. I thinks it's horrible. If they're good at dancing, let them dance. If they enjoy it, let them. There's no need to ruin someone's self esteem.
Even if someone isn't the best at something say, singing for example. Don't put them down for it. If they enjoy it, then that's all that matters. If you don't like them singing, don't listen.
* You don't have to be jealous of someone because they enjoy their hobby or are good at something, instead be supportive and encourage them to become even better! *
If you are told that you shouldn't be doing something you enjoy or are good at, just know that they're only jealous and that itself should tell you to carry on doing, what you do best!
I'm going to leave that now before I bore you, so adios amigo!xo
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